Comments: A mommy's boy is a boy or a man who has a very close relationship with his mother. As an adult, the man may talk to his mother on a daily basis and spend more time with her than some consider normal. Often, he will turn to his mother when he needs advice and may respect her opinion above that of other family members and friends. In some cases, he may continue to live at home with his mother far longer than most adults. Such a man willingly does things for his mother whenever she needs help and vice versa. Usually, the term carries negative connotations, and these men are seen as overprotected, smothered, and incapable of doing things for themselves. Interestingly, however, daddy's girls are not viewed as negatively. As such, it may be concluded that many view a close and protective relationship between a father and daughter as healthy, yet consider a man’s close relationship with his mother wrong and unnatural. Often, the person who has the strongest feelings of displeasure concerning a man's relationship with is mother is his wife or girlfriend. Frequently, a woman in this position feels insecure about the attention the mommy's boy gives his mother, and she may believe his attention should be centered on her. The wife or girlfriend may be angered when her partner seeks his mother's advice or shares intimate details about their relationship with her. Women in this situation often become extremely resentful of the mother/son relationships. Ad In all fairness, the mother of a mommy's boy may feel jealous and resentful as well. She may believe her son's significant other isn't good enough for him, for example, or that no woman is really good enough for her son. In some cases, the mother may actually interfere with her son's romantic relationship, attempting to cause problems and remain the center of his attention. The man may be unaware or unwilling to face up to the negative emotions or behavior of either woman in his life. Though being a mommy's boy is often viewed negatively, it is interesting to note that many people think a man's treatment of his mother is indicative of the way he will treat his wife or girlfriend. If that is true and the man can love both women, a man who has a good relationship with his mother may actually be a good partner in a close, romantic relationship. That is, of course, if the new woman can find a way to embrace his mother and gain her acceptance as well.
Comments: Lots of families have one: a family freeloader. The adult child who still gets money from parents each month to make it. He or she never quite kept stable employment. Maybe there’s a substance abuse or mental health problem that sibling has. For whatever reason, the aging parents have been bailing him or her out for decades. What brings this to a crisis point is that a parent’s health fails or a parent passes away. Then what? The sibling who has never been able to make it independently is in a panic. That sibling has not been able to earn enough to live on, nor to manage finances. No plan is in place for self support. Sometimes this leads to financial elder abuse by the financially dependent adult child. Even if that does not happen, emotions can explode among other family members over decades of unequal treatment among siblings by parents. A need to use the parent’s financial resources to pay for a parent’s care can bring the situation to light. If there are enough resources in the parent’s estate to provide for the financially dependent “freeloader”, it is not such a problem. The trustee of the parent’s estate can arrange for continued support. However, if there are insufficient resources, the situation can force action upon the other family members. Sometimes, people come to us at AgingParents.com when it’s too little, too late. Here’s a real life example: There are four adult children, all in their 50′s. Mom, a widow is in her 80′s, still lives in the family home, but her health is failing. She needs to be in a memory care facility and plans are in place to move her there. She has no other assets besides the family home, which needs to be sold to pay for the care facility. Their financially dependent sibling, Ben, has been unemployed for the past 10 years. He is not cut out for caregiving and can’t provide that help for Mom. He has lived in the family home with Mom for years and doesn’t want to move. He is in a battle with his siblings to get out. He has no place to go. Push has come to shove and eventually the sheriff was called in to evict Ben. He became homeless. It is a tragedy that could have been prevented. Did this family have other options? Recommended by Forbes Yes, they did. Various possible solutions could have been tried but no one initiated them. The possibility of using the equity in Mom’s home to pay for care at home was potentially a choice. Ben could have been housed there as long as Mom was able to be cared for at home. In the interim, between initiating home care and the end of Mom’s life or her move to a nursing home, Ben could have made some plans to work out how to survive. His siblings could have participated in the planning for his transition. If he were work-disabled, he would have time to apply for disability benefits that might be available to him. If he were capable of working, he would have time to acquire skills or put effort into finding employment. Another option was to have one of the other siblings take Ben in on a temporary basis so that he could have an opportunity to find work while keeping a roof over his head, or seek any benefits to assist in his survival going forward. The coldness of the siblings was shocking to me. They did nothing. Ben had not gotten any help with the problem of being unable to support himself. His was a complex picture but it did not involve substance abuse or a diagnosed mental health issue. He could not avail himself of social services in his county, as he did not know what to do nor how to get vocational assistance or job training. A more capable sibling could have provided guidance in this. This family had never discussed the problem of what Ben needed to do when Mom needed full time care. That was perhaps the most glaring omission in the entire picture. Three other siblings might have worked together to help their brother avoid homelessness, even if they didn’t approve of his “freeloader” habits. No one did any advance planning and a tragic outcome was the result. When a parent loses independence and needs full time care, it can affect every family member. If you have someone in your family who is like Ben, think ahead. What will happen to him or her when the parent who supports financial dependency can’t do any longer? As uncomfortable as this is, every family with an adult in it who can’t support himself needs to work together to keep the dependent sibling or other relative sheltered, at least. The smallest amount of sibling decency can go a long way. A little honest planning can prevent the worst from happening, as in this heartbreaking real case. Until next time,
Comments: Why would anyone who just sits there in mommies borrowed room all day listening to 435 for the last fifty years and not be motivated enough to get a job or join the workforce must be as useless as paint drying on a wall.Mom the only way you'll ever motivate Jr. to get out of the house is to sell it,does he still demand after you make him his prized peanut n butter jelly sandwiches to cut the crust of the ends as he as asked for the last fifty years
Comments: Ryan Migliori and hiz lumpa coal. That dam nigga ain't got no soul. Talkin his dribble is taking it's toll. His teeth feel out as he hit the wall. The fella's getting mad oh kaint you see. Why that Mfer always trippin on the? It's 435 he won't be cool. Drag that sucker right back to school. WORD!
Comments: Wow - for the lot of you that are still on the fence, i would say "go for it". Apparently there are still true artists in the field of plastic surgery... and i got the naked pictures as proof. Allen Munger just sent me the newly released pictures of a completely naked Katlyn Jenner. I'm telling you a real M-I-L-F.
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Comments: .... your mother must be so proud. 80 plus degree day today, perfect for bikini's at the beach and there you are giggling like a maniacal little girl sitting on the side of the same race car bed, in the same bedroom that you have occupied for the past 50 years. You are right (in some demented world), listening to 435 all day was a much better use of your free time. DORK !!
Comments: the more mayhem the better! 435 deserves every bit they get! Great fun to listen to Part 97 being pissed on!
Comments: I HAD MY INTERNET SERVICE TERMINATED HERE IN AUSTRALIA FOR BEING A FUCKING RETARD. MY NAME IS ALAIN MUNGIER AND I WANT TO BE PART OF 435 SO BADLY. TOO BAD I LOST MY INTERNET SERVICE FROM OPTUS. http://www.optus.com.au/
Comments: when I talk I sure sound GAY!
Comments: you are listening, Nobody else is left to get pissed off. But there you are wasting a perfectly good day listening to the mayhem on 435 and anonymously posting out here like you are in charge of it. hahahah Good that you hide your identity when posting out here so that you can at least save some face in front us on the radio. Too bad that you know that you are such a loser. Smoke some more pot and try to forget that.
Comments: WHOEVER WOULD TRY TO JAM SAVAGE WOULD GET JAMMED BY A SAVAGE SQUEAKY THATS RIGHT THATS RIGHT
Comments: Just love the LA LA LA MUSIC being played on 435! it pisses off so many listeners! Doing just what it is supposed to do! KEEP AT IT!!!! the more listeners pissed off the better!!
Comments: You want to start some tired insult show against Richard Clark because no-one cares about your Savage jamming.
Comments: Listen to the Savage jammer get pissed because somebody played the deliverance song! Classic!
Comments: No You got that wrong. It's more like; WHO ever is jamming with SAVAGE is has a slimy dirty dick in his mouth RIGHT NOW!!
Comments: WHO ever is jamming SAVAGE is has a slimy dirty dick in his mouth RIGHT NOW!!
Comments: why in the hell do you think we call it ASStralia you useless dumbfuck that's because you moan and whine all the time from getting butt raped by your male prison bitches AAHHAHHAHHAHAHAAHHHAAAA THATS RIGHT THATS RIGHT
Comments: Western Australia. Big, obnoxious & greedy coal mining fucks who like to whinge about the east coast, get butthurt real easy and are always threatening to secede every two days or so because for WA it's 'that time of the month' everyday. Basically Australia's Texas. Australia couldn't care less if the lumbering giant went through with its "I'M LEAVING FOREVER" emo tantrums, only to be reminded WA's sand makes up 95% of Australia's economy. Northern Territory. Grimey wasteland. BIG FUCKING ROCK. More grimey wasteland. Also Abos. South Australia. Visiting South Australia is like going back in time 30 years but with shitloads of crumbly-arse churches that only old wowsers take pride in, as well as being from the only state to which no convicts were sent. It is also universally recognised as a shitheap. New Zealand. Androgynous sheep-rooting hobbits. Unlike Oztrollia's convict past, the kiwis were founded by christfags. New Zealand now has a larger prison population than Australia. To curb this trend, the NZ government is sending failboats of maori to Australian shores. Queensland. It's like the deep south but tropical. Actually that's an insult to the deep south. At least there you can have an abortion without being thrown in jail for 7 years. Queensland is also famous for its police force, which has enacted many rational and progressive policies such as torching a house "under the suspicion" the residents may have marijuana, and beating people unconscious with batons, just 'cause. Its capital Brisbane is a sweaty, seedy shithole. "Brisbane was the closest thing to a heavy, heavy, junta-style police state I've ever been in. I was looking over my shoulder a lot!" - Jello Biafra Australian Capital Territory. Only one city, Canberra. Politicians live here. All of 'em are fuuuuuucken kents. Victoria. Three kinds of people live here: hipster jew faggots sipping soy lattes at art gallery openings, poofy eurasian scenesters doing the ketamine-induced shuffle on top of trams, and agro bogan cunts who spend their days glassing the two previous groups in the face. Tourists flock to Melbourne (moar like Melburn, amirite) to experience art, cuisine, and multicultural harmony. Everyone in Melbourne are tree-hugging faggots and like telling the rest of the country to check their privilege. New South Wales. Sandniggers, curryniggers, yellowniggers, niggerniggers, and convictniggers living side by side in a vast ghetto sprawl. Also spiders and roaches. Someone nuke that shit. Oh, and there's also a big bridge. Don't forget the big bridge. But beware going west of this bridge may result in one being swarmed by degenerates in nautica sports wear trying to steal your shoes. Tasmania. Recently sold to Denmark. Incestuous shithole. Antarctica. Ausfags have a thing for vast empty spaces of infertile nothingness. So the other day they sent some guy to claim the south pole as official territory of Oz. Plans are underway to convert it into a prison island for British tourists that whinge about the heat. Christmas & Cocos (Keeling) Islands. Both are degenerate race-mixing shitholes used by the government to dump pakis & sandniggers who arrive by boat as 'asylum seekers'. Tell White Australians to go back to the British jails they came from. Remind them that White Australians are also immigrants and it doesn't matter how many generations they've been there, they will never be considered real native Australians. Remind them that Hitler thought Australians were inferior and wanted the Japanese to wipe them out (another reason why the Nazis should have won the war). Confuse them for Germans. Confuse them for New Zealanders Confuse them for British Confuse them for shit. Ask them why their country is infested with pedophiles. Tell them that Australian slang is the worst thing that ever happened to the English language and its slowly dying of (thank fuck). Remind them that the Anzacs sucked during WW1, and the Muslim Ottoman Empire fucked them up in Gallipoli (not like the Ausfags had a chance). Ask them why they celebrate Anzac day even though they lost the battle of Gallipoli(Fucken Retards). Say the Gallipoli campaign was less important to WWI than a dry fart in a trench. Tell them their women are ugly, dumb and fat (the Australian men already know, that's why they are marrying fit, smart, attractive Asian women). Remind them that they are a minor nation that no one gives a fuck about. Invite them to see an Australian film. Say that Bart Vs. Australia was the best travelogue you've ever watched. Interrupt them when they're talking by saying 'a dingo ate your baby'. Start every conversation with "Thank God for the USA". Apply your own culture's racial stereotypes to their television shows and advertisements. Ask them, "Why are the Lebanese so poorly treated in your country?" Tell them any Australian detention centre is worse than Guantanamo Bay. Tell them the Bali bombing was a forced meme. Tell them their version of football is gay. (Only works on Victorians. The entire rest of the country already knows this.) Remind them that the superior smart Asians and Indians are the only reason their country is doing economically well, and has nothing to do with the fat,lazy,drunk,stupid white convicts. (That statement is surprisingly true). Remind them that China could wipe Australia of the world map with their Nuclear arsenal, so keep sucking their cock. Purposely confuse their flag with the New Zealand flag. If you hear them talk, tell them they sound British. Remind them they are the spawn of convict buttrape (disregard that, that's their greatest source of pride). Remind them that they are actually the low caste inferior whites, no different from the nigga white Irish and the sub-human white eastern Europeans. Tell them that removing the White Australia policy was the best thing that ever happened to their country.
Comments: poor useless ASStralian all spun out once again just shows not only your own character but that of your whole country.your nothing more then a useless pathetic excuse for a butt rape victim AAhhhhhhahahahAAHhhh |
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